Ashes Burial vs Ashes Scattering: Making the Right Choice

Making decisions after cremation

After a cremation, families are often faced with an important decision: whether to scatter ashes or to bury them. There is no right or wrong choice, only what feels most appropriate for the person who has died and those remembering them.

Ashes scattering

Ashes scattering is often chosen for its simplicity or for its connection to a place that held special meaning. For some, it feels freeing and symbolic. However, scattering ashes does not always provide a permanent place to return to, which can feel unsettling for families over time.

Ashes burial and ashes interment

Ashes burial, also known as ashes interment, offers an alternative that combines simplicity with permanence. At The Windmills Natural Green Burial, ashes are laid to rest within meadow or woodland using biodegradable urns or containers, allowing them to return naturally to the earth.

A permanent place of remembrance

One of the main reasons families choose ashes burial is the sense of having a dedicated place of remembrance. A burial ground provides somewhere to visit, reflect and feel close to a loved one, whether on anniversaries, quiet walks or moments when comfort is needed.

Living memorials in a natural setting

Ashes burial also allows for a living memorial. Rather than a headstone, families may choose a memorial tree or simple wooden plaque. Over time, the landscape grows and changes, offering a sense of continuity and renewal.

Environmental considerations

For those concerned about environmental impact, ashes burial in a natural burial ground is an eco-friendly option. The land is cared for sensitively, supporting wildlife and native plants, and avoiding the long-term environmental footprint associated with traditional memorials.

Choosing what feels right

When deciding between ashes scattering and burial, it can help to think about how you would like to remember your loved one in the years to come. Some families find reassurance in having a peaceful place they can return to, while others feel comforted by the idea of ashes being scattered freely.

If you are unsure, speaking with a burial ground directly can help clarify the options and offer gentle guidance at what can be an emotional time.